Can Stress Kill You??

 

 

We have all felt the impacts of stress at some point in our lives, whether it be our own or those around us. From work deadlines to school assignments or even paying off the bills, stress appears in many different aspects of our lives.

Short-term stress can make us feel anxious, exhausted, and irritable but is sometimes necessary for productivity and accomplishing our goals. However, chronic stress can have serious impacts on our health and well-being, which ultimately can lead to a shorter life span.

Chronic Stress

Long-term stress has proven to have negative effects on our health and is much more common than one would imagine. According to The American Institute of Stress (stress.org), 55 percent of people report feeling repeated and extreme stress throughout their daily lives, while 47% of workers feeling stressed from the workplace.

The causes of chronic stress can be anything from financial problems to a high-pressure job, to issues with family or our relationships. There are various ways that stress directly impacts our health, especially over the long term.

 

Symptoms of Chronic Stress

There are many indicators that a person may be experiencing chronic stress. If they are overwhelmed and constantly busy, it may not be that easy to identify the symptoms and admit that they are stress related.

One of the most common symptoms of chronic stress is frequent tension headaches. This can occur due to the fact that when under stress, you are likely not giving your mind as much oxygen as it needs. The built-up emotions that stress brings to the mind increases muscle tension and can impact our sleep. Can’t lose weight? Stress can affect your ability to process sugar and carbohydrates leaving the body more vulnerable to weight gain, and leave you susceptible to developing diabetes.

Stress can also increase our general anxiety levels, leaving us on edge and irritable throughout the day. Stress-related anxiety causes rapid breathing, high blood pressure, frequent stomachaches, and a weakened immune system. These impacts on the body leave you at risk for heart attacks and potentially very serious diseases.

Long-Term Effects

According to the American Institute of Stress, it is not the stressful situations that can kill you, but how you deal with the stress that affects your health. When your stress is excessive over long periods of time, you will begin to experience these symptoms and have a high risk for anxiety, depression, and even suicidal thoughts.

A study done by the Mental Health Foundation discovered that 32 percent of respondents who were experiencing chronic stress admitted to having some form of suicidal thoughts at one point in their lives.

Heart disease is another common way that stress impacts the body. People often turn to excessive eating, drugs, or alcohol to manage chronic stress, but in reality, this worsens their symptoms and long-term health.

The high blood pressure and cholesterol that results from these decisions can damage the artery walls and eventually lead to life threatening heart problems. One also is at risk for developing dementia as stress hormones adversely affect the brain.

Preventing the Effects of Chronic Stress

Fortunately, there are many ways to overcome chronic stress and prevent it from having lasting impacts on your health. One of the best ways to manage stress is to stay away from alcohol, drugs, and caffeine. Practicing deep breathing, mindfulness, or meditation help with calming the nervous system and provide relaxation.

Having a set daily routine allows the body to not feel as stressed and overwhelmed with responsibilities. This can also allow you to maintain a healthy lifestyle and make time for exercise each day, even if it means waking up an hour earlier.

Routines also help with maintaining a good sleep pattern and getting the proper amounts of sleep each night. You will not experience problems falling asleep if you go to bed at the same time each night and your body will get adjusted to waking up early in the morning.

There are many ways to manage stress and overcome it in order to prevent the life-threatening impacts that stress can have on the body and your overall health. It is important to take the necessary steps to avoid these problems and stay mentally and physically healthy for the long-term. Can you stress kill you – the answer is yes! If not properly managed.

 

“It’s not stress that kills us, it’s our reaction to it”Hans Selye

What Is Impostor Syndrome and Do You Have It?

 

Have you ever been in a situation that you succeeded but didn’t feel as if you ‘did enough’ or that it was due to someone else’s contributions? Do you hold back on going for that job promotion or struggle with feeling like a failure? If so, you are not alone. You most likely are suffering from imposter syndrome.

 

Impostor syndrome is best described as the fear of being considered a fraud or doubting one’s accomplishments. Even those who have reached a level of success in their chosen field are often full of anxiety and crippling thoughts of being considered a fraud.

According to the Journal of Behavioral Science, it is estimated that 70% of people in the U.S. experience impostor syndrome.

 

Impostor syndrome (IS) is an internal feeling that you believe you are not as qualified as others may think you are. This is often connected to thoughts of perfectionism and can be applied to your intelligence or achievement. If you have feelings of being a fraud or that you did not deserve that raise, then you could be dealing with impostor syndrome.

 

Five Characteristics of Impostor Syndrome

 

Those who suffer with impostor syndrome doubt their own skills and accomplishments despite the evidence of the success. Below are four common indicators you may be dealing with impostor syndrome.

 

  1. Deep-seated feelings of fear that you aren’t able to meet expectations.
  2. Undermining your achievements even when you worked diligently towards that goal.
  3. Setting unrealistic goals and then feeling disappointed if you do not meet those goals.
  4. Doubting yourself no matter what you’re working on or working towards
  5. Not moving forward on what you truly want and feeling you don’t deserve to have it

 

If you recognize any of the above, there some things you can do to move past these feelings.

 

Begin by confronting your feelings and any beliefs you hold about yourself. If you struggle with any of this, consider speaking with a professional or close friend. Confiding in someone can help you gain clarity on your feelings and beliefs.

 

Impostor syndrome can be ingrained in you as a child and continue well into adulthood. Struggling with feelings of being a fraud can happen to anyone but is seen mostly in successful women.

 

According to research done with Psycnet.apa.org, “despite their outstanding academic and professional accomplishments, women who experience the impostor phenomenon persist in believing that they are really not bright and have fooled anyone who thinks otherwise.”

 

Do You Have Impostor Syndrome?

 

So, how do you know if you suffer from impostor syndrome? One way to know if you are dealing with it is to take a free online test. Simply answer the questions that you can find through a quick online search, or try the free test on at Psycom.net.

 

You can remove impostor syndrome by first recognizing it in your life and seeing how it is affecting you. Progressively work towards breaking those limiting beliefs by thinking of the quality of work you are performing versus the quantity.

 

If someone pays you a compliment, remind yourself that it is a fact and that you deserve it. Another way is to write out your accomplishments, say in the last few days, to see what led to them, i.e. your thoughts and actions, your motivation and drive to make them happen.

 

Begin to recognize your own successes and take time to celebrate the wins in your life. When you recognize that your successes begin with you, you will begin to have more confidence; eventually, your inner voice will support your new positive thoughts so you can overcome the feelings of impostor syndrome.

 

 

“Impostor syndrome” is a paradox: Others believe in you – you don’t believe in yourself. Yet you believe yourself instead of them.” — (Adam Grant)

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