One of the biggest irritations I find is when I go in to a place of business and hear workers complaining about it – the company, their boss, systems, etc. It happened just today: I went in to buy lunch at a fast food restaurant, which had two workers – one cooking, one waiting on customers. There was one customer waiting for her order; while I was getting checked out, the phone rang. The worker told the cook, who was going to answer, to let it ring, stating “That’s what they get for leaving me with one worker.”
Now, first off, I did not need to hear of her unhappiness with the schedule; I was thinking, however, that it wasn’t like they were busy or slammed with customers. I also thought how sad that she could not handle her job or appreciate her work – after all, she did apply for it. Another thought was that she did not thank me for coming in or buying their product – she was too busy complaining and being in her own ‘stuff.’
Jobs are not going to meet everyone’s needs and not all the time. However, others don’t need to hear the complaints or know that information. All it does is breed negative energy, which can spread like a virus. Others will either avoid you due to the negativity or join you, creating a very unhappy workplace that only they want to be in. It also puts customers off, who could make a complaint against you, or a coworker could as well. The result? Not good.
So, to those workers who are dissatisfied with their job, please keep those comments to yourself. Take some action on changing your outlook and perspective (only you control them) by focusing on an aspect you do like, whether that is ‘making the donuts’ or helping customers. Think of how your actions affect others. Bring your concerns to the one person who can do anything about them – your boss. If those don’t work – look for another job!
Tomorrow is the First Day of Your New Life
As we end out the last hours of the end of the week and the end of the month, I hope that you have redefined your goals that will have you playing a bigger game, keeping in mind that is the first day of your new life; the life that you want and that will bring you all that you desire. If you have, then wake-up tomorrow ready to face your new reality. If not, take this restful holiday weekend to do so – you get a pass for Labor Day to relax, dream, create and plan. No longer can you put off getting what you want so go do it today!
Goal Reached (Day 30 of my Blog Challenge)
Today is day 30 of my blog challenge! While it hasn’t always been easy to find the time (and sometimes topics) I made the commitment and did it. Knowing that it takes at least 30 days for a habit to form, I should assume that mine is set; but, alas, it is not (quite). Habits can take up to 60 days as we deal with social media and that old myth of ‘multitasking.’ Wanting instant results will lead to failure of ensuring that the actions you take will stick.
The key to sustaining habits lies in consistency of the actions you’ve taken towards whatever goal you’ve worked for. If you desire to reach your goals, keep in mind that it is not a race but a marathon; I liked to equate it to the tortoise and the hare – you can do things quickly (the hare) but it is better to take slow and methodical, like the tortoise. If you remember, he won the race but it wasn’t from running quickly or taking short-cuts.
Here are steps I took to help me reach this goal that you can easily implement:
- I made the decision to do the challenge – I did this blog challenge last August and felt the time was right to do it again this year. Once I made the decision…
- I made the commitment – for me, this meant that there was no option but to write daily, whether it was a really meaningful post or a quote. When I felt like giving it up, or skipping a day, I kept that personal commitment in mind which helped me to…
- Take action – writing daily felt exhilarating in the beginning, then like a chore in the middle, and finally energizing at the end. Not wanting to let myself down was enough to keep me posting.
I am not telling you that writing daily was easy but I can honestly say that, now that the goal is reached, I feel more accomplished and aware that I can keep on and achieve any goal that I want. Having to answer to yourself – and knowing that you held true – is an empowering feeling. So go ahead and make your own challenge – I dare you!
Let me know how you on your challenge (or if I can help you get them!)
Federal Employees are Leaving en Masse
It is finally happening – federal employees, Boomers to be exact, are finally feeling ready to leave their government jobs. It is predicted that approximately 80,000 are set to retire by the end of the fiscal year, according to the Office of Personnel Management. This number is expected to increase as we move on and the Boomers age; more than a third of federal workers are eligible to retire by 2016 – 3 out of 5 will be at the executive level.
Some of the reasons they are giving include financial freezing of their wages and retirement accounts, furloughs and low morale. This number is impacting executive levels as their knowledge and experience is also walking out the door. While this signals good news for younger workers, some positions will not be easy to replace due to required experience levels, such as air traffic controllers or those in research positions, which often takes years to acquire.
It seems that the economic downturn forced many to stay in their jobs, who would have been otherwise gone; but it doesn’t seem that there has been a good succession plan in place to prepare for this exodus, as it was going to happen eventually as time moved on. Some interventions that some governmental agencies are doing and which can be an example for organizations to begin considering and planning for, as they will also be impacted, are to offer the career lattice that I have previously discussed, which is offering workers the opportunity to get trained and experienced in several different skill-sets and work areas, another is training and mentoring opportunities, while another is to have a phase-out policy, where an executive could retire but continue working part-time with partial compensation for which they would mentor and train their successors.
This problem is not going to get better as the last of the Boomers are not going to reach age 65 until 2030. I think our younger workforce is ready to move into those positions but need developed in the skills that will fully enable them to do the job well. It will be interesting to see how this will impact our federal agencies – take one other lesson from these agencies and don’t wait to develop and put in place a succession plan today.
Struggling with Making a Big Decision?
As we are winding the last few days of August, we are now facing the last 4 months of the year. While this can be exciting to create new opportunities, this can also elicit feelings of fear out of making those dreams a reality. Some of this may involve some major life changes which comes with big decisions, all of which will greatly impact your life. If you find yourself struggling with making a big decision, here are some quick steps to think about:
- really understand the ‘why’ of making the change – this is the need to let go of something that has not been working and wanting to go after what will; if you’re not clear on this then you will be held back
- recognize what is actually holding you back – is it the fear of change or making the wrong decision; it is worry over money or involves other people; do you actually believe you can make the change – resolving these will help propel you forward
- do the research – knowing everything about the proposed decision will help you be more informed; you can do this by researching on the internet, talking to people who have experienced the same change, or seeking help from a coach who can help and support you in making the best informed decision
Only with enough self-awareness and knowledge can one make a decision that feels ‘right’ which leads to acting to get the desired result. Using the simple exercise of taking a piece of paper and writing down the pros/cons of all areas is helpful, as well as using the principles of the Six Thinking Hats, where you list out what the best result, the worst, result, what is known, what needs to be known and then using your creativity to uncover any ideas listed are helpful tools in decision-making, Another is having trust in yourself and and using the ‘voice’ inside (your intuition) as you guide.
